Last Thursday I hosted a Facebook Live Event with my Singing Transformation class and we discussed a key revelation I had recently:
Singing does not stop after you're done singing.
Instead, it is a state of BEING that CONTINUES well after you finish creating sound.
Crazy, no? Allow me to explain! Check out the video below -- excerpts from the event. We'll also sing through a couple key vocal warmups together!
In the video above, you will:
If you've ever written to me and said:
Fel, when I sing a song I become very overcome with feeling and want to cry, and then I lose my technique.
Fel, how do I show real emotion when I sing?
-- then the following process will serve you incredibly well.
But first, a quick story . . .
This past Friday I attended a business conference, and in one of our small group exercises, I started crying.
My attempt at a "business suit"
If that sounds weird, it's because it kind of is. But this was no ordinary business conference. The goal of our group exercise was to relive a past memory and to hold the feeling of that memory in our bodies.
(Among other things, one greater goal of the conference was to expand our consciousness, to learn to hold feelings, and to use these skills in the service of creating...
“We don't rise to the level of our expectations, we fall to the level of our training.” --Archilochos
Last month I began performing onstage with my musical improv group Thank You, Places: An Improvised Musical at the Philly Improv Theater. Every other Friday we make up a one-hour musical, on the spot!
If you're thinking: That sounds hard, Fel is so BRAVE! -- well, I have news for you:
It freaking ter-ri-fies me.
Seriously. I think I was more nervous on February 17, 2017, our opening night, than I was when I first went on for Elphaba in Wicked (and that's not a joke).
The face of a woman doing everything she can not to freak out
Why was performing made-up songs so psychologically stressful for me? You already know the answer, I'm sure:
No preparation means you have nothing to hold onto, no rules to follow, and no way to anticipate the challenging parts of a song.
In contrast, if you want me to do "regular"...
You read that right -- puppies! Allow me to explain...
One of my students, Claire S., is an assistance dog trainer. She's enrolled in Singing Transformation and noticed that a lot of my teaching revolved around the following principle:
Singer's should QUIT....while they're ahead.
It might sound weird. But it's a tried-and-true method -- not just for learning how to sing. As Claire told me, it's also great for training service dogs!
Before we talk more about puppies, let's first discuss:
What does it mean to "quit while you're ahead" when you practice singing?
In my opinion, the best warmups sessions should end on a "high note" (no pun intended). If you use my 3-step practice system, your typical warmup session might look like this:
In case you didn't hear, my elite training course Singing Transformation: 360 Degrees of Vocal Training is now open for enrollment!
This only happens about once or twice per year.
This course is my absolute favorite thing I do as a voice teacher.
**Editors Note: As of August 2017 Felicia is no longer offering Singing Transformation.**
You know what bugs me most? When singers don't realize their full potential -- not because they're incapable, but because they don't have the right tools.
In our online singing community there are over 90,000 singers who tweet me, email me, leave awesome comments -- you name it! And I can sense the love-hate relationships they have with their voices.
They have spent years (decades, even!) spinning their wheels and not making lasting progress.
Maybe you can relate. You're a singer with boatloads of potential, trying to piece together the "clues" of how singing should feel. But you feel way more frustrated than triumphant.
You see progress, then setbacks. You learn tips and tricks (possibly from me, on YouTube :-) ), but nothing truly STICKS.
You don't know how to put it together in the right order.
Your voice comes and goes, never seeming predictable.
You start to worry: "Am I just not cut out for this?"
"Do I have to be blessed with that elusive 'it' factor that makes singing...
Time for a ridiculous, holiday-themed video that explores the differences between pop singing and musical theater singing!
More specifically, I will sing "Silent Night" two different ways, all while wearing an ugly Christmas sweater.
The gist of the two approaches is:
This isn't a detailed musical theater or pop singing tutorial per se, but it's a fun 'n' silly video that contrasts some key approaches that can help make your singing sound more pop-py.
(Because I personally am a beginner pop singer, I would consider this pop singing for beginners. :) )
It's the most wonderful time of the year. Nope, I don't mean the holidays....
I mean: it's time for my Singing Survey and Skype Lottery! Woooooo!
Can you lend 3 minutes to answer my quick survey?
Every year I revise my elite 8-week training program Singing Transformation directly from your singer feedback. Singing Transformation is my "teaching opus" -- my mondo fun and cool singing course designed to teach CONFIDENCE and CONSISTENCY in a truly epic and comprehensive way.
The best part: I add to it every year, and use your comments to help shape (1) the way I teach, (2) what I teach. Plus, I'll use your feedback for all of my future courses / videos / teaching topics.
The more I can get to know you, the better I'll be able to help you. :)
Extra cool part? If you complete the survey you'll be in the running to get a free Skype session / convo with me -- I'll be picking 3 singers to chat with from all those who enter.*
Hey, great idea! Here are the instructions.
I sat down to write a singing-related newsletter but all the topics kept falling flat (no offense, singing, I still love you, but that's the truth).
At this moment, on the verge of 2017, my mind and heart are seated on the metaphysical equivalent of a Six Flags rollercoaster.
There's a fine line for me to walk with respect to divulging personal thoughts. I don't want to veer too far off topic -- you most likely found me online and enjoyed my singing lessons and info, and Dr. Phil moments might not be your thing --
But what the hell. Maybe we can relate to each other and stuff. :)
Accomplishment scares the sh*t out of me.
On the Grand Staircase of Life (I don't even know what that means? But let's embrace this architectural metaphor for a second) I do this thing where I painstakingly climb to a new, higher step, look around, smile, feel the accomplishment, take a breath....
...then feel the...